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Through stories we create connection and understanding – in relation to others, but also within ourselves.
Have you been thinking about telling your chronic illness story? Maybe you want to keep a private record of what it’s been like to live with health issues. Or maybe you want to share your experiences with friends and family. No matter the reason, remember that it can be as simple or as involved as you make it.
Understanding why you’re writing, learning helpful tips and tricks, and identifying a starting point can help you shake off the overwhelm and take action.
1. Feel a sense of relief and reduce stress levels.
Your mind is most likely teeming with endless questions, worries, opinions, emotions, and information all the time – even if you don’t realize it. Think of Dumbledore tapping a wand to his head, and leading a trail of shimmering thoughts into a glowing, glass orb. Writing is a way to let things out and release the pressure.
2. Track your progress.
You don’t have to record just one version of your story; your perspective will change overtime. Write periodic journal entries or recaps of your chronic illness journey to help your future self better understand what happened, and what has improved or worsened.
3. Connect with others in similar situations.
The act of sharing your story may start a conversation. You can make new friends with people who relate to what you’re going through.
4. Practice communicating about your illness.
It’s not easy to talk about these kinds of things, but the more you practice, the more confident and empowered you’ll feel. You’ll also be in a better position to educate those around you and raise awareness, if that is a path you’re looking to take.
5. Gain perspective and new insights.
Writing down thoughts and memories can have the powerful effect of shifting the way we see things and bringing new ideas to light. You never know – it could trigger a “eureka!” moment.
6. Help others feel less isolated, alone, and hopeless.
We all know there are too many people out there without adequate support. Reach out with your own personal story and be one more hug, one more smile, one more voice insisting, “You’re not alone.”
7. Raise awareness.
Assumptions, social constructs, and other factors can get in the way of true understanding. Add your voice to the collection of insider stories circulating online. It helps friends, relatives, healthcare professionals – all the people around you – better understand what life with a condition like yours is really like.
Celebrate what makes you, you. You may have a disease, but you are not your disease. Your story does not need to solely be about illness, but about what makes you unique and how your qualities as a person have brought you to this point in your journey.
Write as if you’re talking to a friend. Use conversational language and let your personality come through.
Keep your notes from doctor visits, journal entries about symptoms, text messages, etc. Gather all your information in one place to better recall details of your story.
Create a timeline. Years of symptoms, medical visits, tests, research, protocols, therapies – and everything else in between – can easily become a jumbled, overwhelming mess in your head.
To more easily write your story and piece together a clearer picture of your journey as a whole, grab a pen and paper. Mark time intervals along a line and jot down significant events that changed the trajectory of your illness (first symptoms, diagnoses, test results, surgeries, treatment plans, etc.).
Let your present emotions fuel your writing. You don’t have to be in any particular headspace to write your story. You may find just the right words during a bad day or good day, and taking out your pen or laptop no matter what you’re feeling can contribute to a more rounded picture of your experience.
Use your senses. Sound and smell are powerful ways to unearth memories. Listening to music from the time period you’re focused on, or smelling a lotion you used or food you frequently ate can unlock specific feelings you had at the time.
Know who you’re writing for. You may be writing primarily for yourself, but you also might have others in mind – a friend with autoimmune disease, someone with new symptoms who doesn’t know where to turn, a relative who is having trouble understanding what you’re going through. It can be helpful to have them in your head- however, remember that this doesn’t need to be for anyone else.
Ask for input. Friends or family members could have interesting insights and different perspectives on your experience. Call them up and ask questions about what they remember during different points in your journey.
Don’t downplay your experience. Give the gift of allowing yourself to be honest about what this is like for you. Many of us are used to sugar-coating how we feel in order to make the people around us more comfortable. This is your chance to tear down that wall. Be open about both the negative and the positive.
Ignore that voice of judgement. As you write, the only one who gets to see those words is you! You are the only reader, so don’t be worried about how you sound, about writing a “good story”, or about it being perfect. You (or a friend) can edit it later.
What matters is that you’re honest. No matter what your goal is in writing this, focus on letting your authentic self come through.
Let the creativity flow. “Writing” your story doesn’t mean you have to write an essay. Note feelings or memories in bullet points, draw or paint scenes and images, write a poem or a play, create a meme, or record a video.
Explain the lingo. If you decide to share your story with others, be sure to briefly define terms or phrases that people outside the chronic illness or autoimmune disease community may not understand, like ANA testing, brain fog, SIBO, hypothyroid, LDN, etc.
Use an emotional intelligence wheel. This is a helpful tool to peel away surface emotions like anger and sadness, and get to root emotions hiding underneath. Pinpointing what you felt from the very beginning to now – at all the various stages – helps your story resonate with readers, and emphasizes the roller coaster ride that is living with chronic illness.
Use this set of prompts to write a brief but colorful snapshot of your journey with chronic illness.
1. Say something unique about yourself. It could be anything – hobbies, favorite places or foods, fun memories, your quirks/dreams/fears, etc.
2. When did you realize something was wrong? How did it make you feel?
3. Describe your diagnosis and/or symptoms.
4. Explain how your health condition has changed the way you live – what are the biggest challenges you experience?
5. What has living with an autoimmune disease or chronic illness taught you?
6. Give one piece of advice to someone who has recently been diagnosed or who’s experiencing health issues
7. Name one thing you’d like people to know about living with a condition like yours
Looking for more ideas? These questions can get the wheels turning when you want to share an in-depth look at your life, but you feel stuck. Writer’s block is no joke!
Once you’ve written your autoimmune or chronic illness story, you can either keep it for yourself (which is 100% ok!) or share it with others.
Add your voice to the community of chronic illness warriors on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, sites like A Chronic Voice, The Mighty, Medium, specific autoimmune disease organizations, and – of course – the Global Autoimmune Institute.
Send an email firstname.lastname@example.org to submit your story and be featured on our website.
And if you’re sharing on social media, don’t forget the hashtags #spoonie #spoonielife #spooniesupport #chronicillness #chronicpain #invisibleillness #butyoudontlooksick #autoimmuneaware #autoimmunestories
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